How To Deal With A Difficult Customer

Providing good customer service to a difficultotherwise but I might be wrong. Let's look at this
customer or client can feel like walking a diplomatictogether." Being willing to admit that you could be
tightrope. But if you handle a customer's complaint thewrong will make it easier for your customer to admit
right way, you can turn the situation around and eventhat he might be wrong, too. Even if you know for a
turn that person into a loyal customer. Here are somecertainty that he's wrong, begin by using diplomacy so
tips to help you when faced with a difficult customer.that your customer can 'save face' if he's proven
Don't Take It Personallywrong. If he feels humiliated, you've probably lost any
How you handle the first contact with a dissatisfiedchance for future business with him.
customer is critical to diffusing the situation. If aIf You're Wrong, Admit It
customer or client approaches you with an adversarialIf you or someone at your company has made a
attitude, voice raised, he isn't seeing you as an individualmistake, admit it and apologize, sincerely and in no
at that moment - only as a representative of youruncertain terms. If you've missed a deadline, mixed up
company. Try to remain objective, and don't take itan order or delivered a product or service below your
personally. If your first reaction is to become defensive,usual standards, there really is no acceptable excuse
you're already well on your way to losing control of theto a customer who was depending on you.
situation. Let him do most of the talking initially, and justIf you agree that your client has a right to be upset,
listen.you've effectively removed any grounds for argument
Try Honestly To See Things From Your Customer'sand you can begin to negotiate a resolution. When a
Point Of Viewcustomer complains, sometimes what they're really
Show respect for your customer's opinions. Whethersaying is, "How are you going to make this right?" In
he's justified or not in being upset, it's important to puteffect, they're giving you another chance. The
yourself in your customer's shoes for a moment. Usecustomer you've truly lost is the one who doesn't
phrases like, "I can certainly understand why you'd feelcomplain, but simply never returns.
that way." Draw on your own experiences as aDecide If You Really Need The Business
dissatisfied customer. You may have been moreThe only way to win an argument is to avoid it. But
diplomatic in the way you asked to have yourthere will times when, despite your best efforts, you will
complaint resolved, but you did expect to be treatedhave to decide if the difficult customer's business is
with respect and taken seriously. If you can do this forworth the time and emotional strain it costs you.
your difficult customer, in most cases he'll begin to calmFortunately, these situations are the exception.
down at this point.Handling difficult customers can be challenging, but it's
Call Attention To A Customer's Mistake Indirectlywell worth mastering the negotiation skills required to
It's seldom a good idea to directly tell anyone thatwin their loyalty. When they're satisfied with the way
they're wrong. Such a direct accusation causesyou handle their complaints, they can also be among
embarrassment, builds resentment and hardensyour biggest sources of referrals. And since
someone's attitude, and makes it less likely that thecustomers are the lifeblood of any business, the more
person you're talking to will want to listen to what youyou can rely on regular customers and referrals then
have to say.the less time and money you'll have to spend to get
If you think that your customer or client has made anew business.
mistake, begin by using phrases like, "Well, I thought